Seeking Family Dispute Resolution When the Other Party Doesn't: What Are Your Options?
- Settled Now Mediation
- Jul 12, 2024
- 3 min read

Family Dispute Resolution (FDR) is a vital process for resolving conflicts related to separation, divorce, and other family matters. However, what happens when one party is willing to engage in mediation, but the other party refuses? In Australia, there are several options available to navigate this challenging situation. This article explores these options and provides guidance on how to proceed when the other party is unwilling to participate in FDR.
Understanding the Requirement for FDR
In Australia, attending FDR is a prerequisite before applying to the Family Court for orders related to parenting arrangements. The Family Law Act 1975 mandates this step to encourage amicable resolutions and reduce the burden on the court system. However, there are exceptions, such as cases involving family violence, child abuse, or urgency, where FDR may not be appropriate.
Option 1: Issuing an Invitation to Mediate
The first step in seeking FDR is to issue an invitation to the other party to participate in mediation. This invitation is typically extended by the FDR service provider. It's essential to communicate the benefits of mediation, such as lower costs, quicker resolutions, and the opportunity for both parties to have their say in a neutral environment.
Option 2: Obtaining a Certificate
If the other party refuses to attend FDR, you can still proceed with your application to the court. To do this, you will need to obtain a Section 60I certificate from an accredited FDR practitioner. This certificate indicates that an attempt was made to resolve the dispute through FDR but was unsuccessful due to the other party's non-participation.
There are different types of Section 60I certificates:
1. Certificate of Attendance: Both parties attended and attempted FDR.
2. Certificate of Non-Attendance: One party did not attend FDR.
3. Certificate of Inappropriateness: FDR was deemed inappropriate (e.g., due to family violence).
4. Certificate of Refusal: One party refused to attend FDR.
5. Certificate of Genuine Effort: Both parties attended but did not make a genuine effort to resolve the dispute.
Option 3: Exploring Alternative Dispute Resolution Methods
If the other party is unwilling to participate in FDR, consider exploring other forms of dispute resolution:
- Collaborative Law: Involves both parties and their lawyers committing to resolving disputes without going to court. It encourages open communication and cooperation.
- Arbitration: A neutral third party (the arbitrator) makes binding decisions on the dispute. This process is less formal than court but provides a definitive resolution.
- Counselling: Sometimes, relationship counselling can help improve communication and reduce conflict, making the other party more amenable to FDR.
Option 4: Legal Advice and Representation
When the other party refuses to participate in FDR, seeking legal advice is crucial. A family lawyer can guide you through the process, help you understand your rights, and represent you in court if necessary. They can also assist in obtaining the necessary Section 60I certificate to proceed with your application.
Option 5: Filing an Application with the Court
If all attempts at FDR fail and you have obtained a Section 60I certificate, you can file an application with the Family Court or Federal Circuit Court. The court will then determine the best course of action based on the circumstances of the case. This process can be lengthy and costly, but it may be necessary if the other party remains uncooperative.
Option 6: Urgent or Interim Orders
In cases where there is an urgent need to protect the welfare of children or secure financial support, you can apply for urgent or interim orders from the court. These orders provide temporary solutions until a final resolution is reached. Urgent applications do not require a Section 60I certificate.
Conclusion
Navigating family disputes when the other party refuses to participate in Family Dispute Resolution can be challenging, but there are several options available to ensure the process moves forward. By issuing an invitation to mediate, obtaining a Section 60I certificate, exploring alternative dispute resolution methods, seeking legal advice, and, if necessary, filing an application with the court, you can work towards a resolution.
While the path may be more complicated without the other party's cooperation, understanding your options and seeking professional support can help you manage the situation effectively. The ultimate goal is to achieve a fair and amicable resolution that prioritises the well-being of all parties involved, particularly any children affected by the dispute.
At Settled Now Mediation, we are dedicated to helping families find amicable and lasting resolutions. Our experienced mediators are here to guide you through every step of the process, ensuring a swift and effective outcome. If you need a Section 60I certificate or are looking for cost-effective and compassionate mediation services in South East Queensland, contact us today. Call us at 1800 262 241 or Click to Email.
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